As humans we have the need to be loved, the need to belong to a social group or a structure. We sometimes go through extreme measures to fulfil this need. We not only want to fulfil this need, we have expectation from the fulfilment. We hope and dream to live happily ever after.
To be exact and to the point, I’m talking about relationships. As humans we long to be with the perfect partner, and have the most perfect relationship filled with joy, laughter and smiles. Im sorry to be the one to tell you that “Happily ever after” only exists in “Hollywood” and maybe “BOLLYWOOD”
The minute you walk into a relationship, you will need to adjust to the next person’s lifestyle, believes, conditions and deal with the insecurities. That on its own is a job and a half. There may be no clashes, but internally you most definitely will.
Keep in mind that this is my personal opinion, and that that’s how Siya sees it…